My Journey as a Divorce Empowerment Coach

There was a time when I thought I had it all figured out. Like many, I believed marriage was meant to be a lifelong bond—a safe space where love, respect, and partnership thrived. But life had other plans for me.

Divorce wasn’t just the end of a relationship; it felt like the end of me. The rejection, the shame, the uncertainty—it all hit like a storm I wasn’t prepared for. Suddenly, the life I had envisioned was slipping away, and I felt completely lost.

There were nights when I cried myself to sleep, wondering how I had ended up here. Days when just getting out of bed felt like a battle. People around me had their opinions—some whispered, some judged, and some simply disappeared. Society doesn’t make divorce easy, especially for women.

At first, I tried to push through, pretending I was okay. But deep down, I wasn’t. That’s when I realised—this wasn’t just an ending, it was a choice to rebuild.

I started searching for answers, trying to heal the parts of me that felt shattered. Books, therapy, spiritual practices—anything that could help me understand why I had allowed toxic patterns to repeat. That’s when I found NLP, Hypnosis, Emotional Intelligence, and Reiki. I didn’t just learn them—I lived them. I applied everything I studied to myself first. Slowly, I started to change. The way I thought. The way I spoke to myself. The way I responded to life.